Ask A Bestie
ASK A BESTIE / DATING, WITHOUT THE APP

How does matchmaking work?

A simple explanation of modern human matchmaking: application, interview, verification, matching, introductions and feedback.

Ask A Bestie: Human matchmaking in the U.S. • $500 for six months • No swiping • Identity verification required • Optional astrology readings: $50

1. Tell us about yourself

You fill out an application about your life, dating history, preferences, non-negotiables and what you are hoping to find.

2. Meet your Bestie

If we think we can help, we schedule a video call. We want the context a good friend would have before introducing you to someone.

3. We verify and meet people

Everyone we set up has interacted with our team too, and identity verification is required.

4. We make the introduction

When we meet someone we think you should meet, we set up the date. There is no profile feed or swiping.

5. Tell us what happened

Your feedback helps us understand what worked, what did not and what to look for next.

Tell us what you’re looking for.

Like you tell your best friend, tell us that too.

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